Archive for July, 2010

Social Media Hear Us Roar!

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

Candice updating the Doorways Facebook Fan Page.

We knew we had to do it, but we didn’t know where to start. How does a nonprofit go from having no communications staff to winning a social media award in just a year and a half? Insert me, a supportive development team, and an amazing volunteer.  I am the Education and Outreach Director at Doorways and as such was given the task of getting us up and running with social networking tools to expand our outreach and create a virtual Doorways community.  

I myself grew up using email through high school, joining MySpace in college, later Friendster and then Facebook.  I had had some friends who “tweeted” and I knew of a few organizations whose blog I read from time to time.  But I didn’t really know how social media could be used to advance an organizations mission or create relationships with donors and volunteers. 

Then I met Kelley Coyner.  Kelley is a connector and Doorways social media guru.  A former board member, she came back to Doorways and into my life for the first time in April of 2009. I remember having meetings with her and leaving with pages and pages of notes and to-dos that would get us caught up and working with the electronic tools of 2010.  With her coaching we were able to educate our staff about the importance of social media tools and to hone how we promote our message and how we engage the community.

With Kelley’s support, I started with a Facebook group page which quickly fizzled into a Doorways Fan Page.  We signed up for Twitter but weren’t sure what to actually promote.  And a blog was in our future but we didn’t know when.  We quickly realized the reach we could have as people began to sign-up to hear what we had to say. 

We integrated a mixture of our wish list requests, client stories of new hope, community events, volunteer happenings and Doorways updates to our new outlets and promoted engagement from our community.  We continue to tailor our posts to what our readers want to know about Doorways and our role in the community. 

A year and a half later we are the recipients of the Nonprofit Roundtables of Greater Washington’s “Moving Your Message” Social Media Advocacy Award in June of 2010.  We have almost 400 fans on Facebook, over 250 followers on Twitter, and dozens of people reading our Executive Directors weekly blog.   In addition the award highlighted the amazing outcomes we had with our online advocacy campaign last spring.  We facilitated over 600 letters to the Arlington County Board through our website and electronic communication vehicles to help increase Doorways funding. 

Thank you to Kelley and our entire online community for all of the support you have given us in meeting this challenge and propelling us into the digital age!

~Candice Lopez, Doorways Education and Outreach Director

Community Members Offer Enthusiasm and Creativity to Raise Funds

Thursday, July 22nd, 2010

2009 Christ Church of Arlington Turkey Trot Starting Line

The support we receive from our community is often humbling.  As the Special Events Coordinator, I have the great fortune of working with community members to plan events that benefit the families we serve in our shelters.  We are fortunate to have a variety of donors and supporters ranging from individuals and corporations to faith and community groups. Many of these organizations coordinate and host various 3rd party fundraisers at no cost to Doorways. Due to limited staff and financial resources, 3rd party fundraisers are critical to our fundraising efforts and bring awareness of the services we provide without the expense! 

Events vary in size and scope and I am amazed at the creativity that community members come up with to promote our work and raise much needed funds.   Arlington restaurants have hosted evenings where proceeds go to Doorways, corporations have held supply and gift card drives and community groups have held happy hours in honor of Doorways. Last holiday season the Potomac Harmony Chorus held a holiday concert and sing-a-long which was free to the Arlington Community and guests made donations to Doorways. They raised over $1,000 thanks to this effort with no cost to us!

One example of an amazing fundraiser that we have had the benefit to see grow over the past four years is the Turkey Trot organized by Christ Church of Arlington.  The first Trot was in November of 2006 and had 300 participants and raised $ 4,200.  However over a three year period the Trot has grown to over 2,000 of participants in 2009 and raised a whopping $33,000 ($13,454 total for Doorways!)

Another example of a corporation coming together and raising funds is our Corporate Ambassador, Crate & Barrel.  Crate & Barrel employees donated $5 in order to receive a “Jean’s Day” pass and the employee was able to wear jeans on any work day that they wished.

Third party fundraisers are an important part of Doorways’ fundraising.   Contact me to learn more about different opportunities you have to get involved! 

~ Lara Lukaszek, Special Events Coordinator

Contact: LLukaszek@doorwaysVA.org or 703-522-8858 x 13

Convicted for Defending Their Lives

Monday, July 19th, 2010

The trailer for this film gave me chills. As an advocate for domestic violence survivors and victims’ I am sadly desensitized to the stories we hear repeatedly from our clients and on the hotline.  However the trailer for this new award winning documentary, Sin By Silence, gave me chills and brought tears to my eyes.

“Of the women convicted of violent crimes, the vast majority were convicted for defending themselves or their children from abuse. In California alone there are 600 women in prison for killing their abusers in self-defense. Average prison terms are twice as long for killing husbands as for killing wives.”  (May 1994 issue report of Women’s Economic Agenda Project)

At the California Institute for Women, history was made in 1989 when the first inmate initiated and led group in U.S. prison history shattered the misperceptions of women imprisoned for defending themselves against domestic violence.   Convicted Women Against Abuse (CWAA) made further history by changing laws for women who have been abused and raising awareness for those on the outside. 

Now, an award winning documentary Sin By Silence reveals the lives of extraordinary women who advocate for a future free from domestic violence.  CWAA’s founder Brenda Clubine, who served 26 years in prison, is one of numerous personal and shocking stories of courageous women who have learned from their past, are changing their future and, most importantly, teach how domestic violence affects each and every person. 

I just ordered the DVD and hope to have Doorways sponsor a viewing event during October Domestic Violence Awareness month in honor of these remarkable, courageous women who served the next ultimate price next to death, prison,  in defending themselves against violence. 

Who would be interested in helping organizing the event?

~ Linda

Doorways Makes it Possible for Pets and Their Owners to be Safe

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

Doorways Kennel

I was out visiting our Safehouse a few days ago – we’re thinking about doing some remodeling soon – when I caught sight of an adorable dog in our backyard kennel. She was up and wagging her tail as soon as she saw me. It was heartwarming to see this dog safely – and energetically – running around in our kennel, a picture made possible by the recent creation of our PAWS Program.

Many women not only fear what will happen to them if they stay with an abuser, but also what will happen to their pets if they leave them behind.  Pets like the children are too often the secondary target for abuse.  It is no wonder so many victims choose not to leave for fear their pet will be harmed, terrorized, maimed or killed.  I’ve read enough client testimonials and research that send chills up my spine of the frightening realities facing victims who want to leave their abusive relationships. 

I’m thrilled our Safehouse kennel gives these women an ideal choice.  We are among only 34 shelters in the country with a PAWS Kennel.

Seeing that doggie brought tears to my eyes… knowing what may have happened if she was left behind…

~ Linda

Countering Media Messages: A New Conversation for Parents

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010

People Magazine: 05/24/10

A couple of weeks ago my son found the People Magazine cover story about the death of Yeardley Love on the hall table. He read the article about her murder and he had lots of questions.  I explained the tragedy in the most developmentally appropriate terms I could muster.

He nodded along with my explanation, asked a few questions, and then was quiet for a moment. Finally, what I thought was a look of understanding came over his face and he said solemnly “Wow, he must have really loved her a lot”.

 I was dumbstruck that my sweet child would somehow associate love with an act of such brutality. I’ve talked to him about drugs, peer pressure, strangers and more, but I never really thought I’d need to have such a frank discussion with him about this issue.  I guess I believed that because he is being raised in a loving, non-violent family, somehow he would just “know”. We went on to have a long conversation about why love and violence have nothing to do with one another.  

My 11 year old son and his friends are on the cusp of adolescence. They are just beginning to explore who they are in the context of “romantic” relationships. They ask each other “Who do you like?” or “Who is your girlfriend?” They tease each other, gently still, with “Oh! You have a crush on her” and “I think she likes you”.

 They don’t go on dates yet.  In their world, a girlfriend is just a girl you hang out with at recess sometimes. Why would I talk to him about dating now?

 Take it from me. Do  NOT to assume that your child is too young – or doesn’t need- to talk about healthy relationships and teen dating violence.

~Alison Senold, Doorways Volunteer

According to CNN Report: Children’s Quality of Life on the Decline

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Child at the Family Home

Who are the homeless? When I speak about homelessness in Arlington, this is often the question I begin with.  The answer I typically receive is some version of the solitary, hungry man who sits on the curb asking for money. But consider this – almost 40 percent of the nation’s homeless are families.  And within those families are 1.3 million children who experience the hardships of homelessness just as much as their parents.

Children who come to our shelters bring these troubles with them. Severe trauma, mental health needs, and illness are all increased by life on the streets. Because of this, we recognize the importance of   meeting the specific needs of every child that enters our program.

Yet a troubling article from CNN claims that children’s quality of life may be declining nationwide due to the recent recession.  According to the article, 21 percent of children will be living below the poverty line this year. The effects of financial insecurity are clear in all aspects of a child’s health – and in their success in school and later in life. The fact that the effects of homelessness on children are lifelong is what concerns me the most.  Ultimately, it is the community that will bear the consequences if these 1.3 million children are left forgotten and without homes.

~Linda

In Good Company: The Washington Post Award for Excellence in Nonprofit Management

Thursday, July 1st, 2010
Washington Post Award Acceptance Image

Executive Director Linda Dunphy and Doorways Board Chair Nicholas Evans accept the award in 2009

Last Wednesday I attended the 2010 Washington Post Award for Excellence in Nonprofit Management ceremony as the representative from Doorways, the 2009 award winner.  It was a great honor to meet this year’s five finalists.

I was delighted to hear each of them talk about the many best practices and innovative solutions that had earned them the coveted spot as a finalist.  Everyone knows that a nonprofit exists to serve clients.   What is less often talked about is that effectively serving clients requires strong, strategic and adaptable management structures. 

A nonprofit should always be focused on how to best fulfill its mission.  HOW a nonprofit does that—and how it adapts to changes, challenges, risks, and opportunities—is often overlooked. 

Last year, Doorways received this award based on, among other things, the following management practices:

  • Written policies and procedures used by the entire agency
  • Strategic investments in fundraising staff to increase the return-on-investment for each position 
  • Incentives for green ways of commuting
  • Strong practices for controlling risk and a business continuity plan

Washington Post Award Logo ImageI applaud the Center for Nonprofit Advancement and The Washington Post for recognizing outstanding management among our region’s nonprofits.  I also offer a standing ovation to all five finalists and in particular, to this year’s award winner, the PHILLIPS Programs for Children & Families

Among the practices Phillips was recognized for include:

  • Extensive staff development programs
  • Effective management of corporate volunteers, providing them with an “authentic experience”
  • Financial risk management and assessments
  • Online project collaboration to manage complex tasks involving multiple stakeholders

Congratulations PHILLIPS and welcome to the distinguished family of Washington Post Award for Excellence in Nonprofit Management recipients!

 –Scott Perkins, Development Director