Posts Tagged ‘Education’

Should I Just Go Back?

Thursday, October 13th, 2011

“Should I just go back?”

Rita came to Doorways looking for safety.  After coming to the conclusion that she needed to leave her abusive situation, Rita had to endure many challenges, including the risk of homelessness.  The financial abuse she suffered prevented her from both meaningful employment and the skills needed to manage her money.  Without anywhere left to turn, she bravely called Doorways and found a bed at our Safehouse.

Unfortunately, coming into our domestic violence shelter was only the first step in Rita’s pursuit to safety.  Rita’s journey will not be over until she can find long-term, stable housing.  While she has found temporary security in a shelter, affordable housing is the only cure to the cycle of abuse and homelessness that Rita seeks to end.  And in her struggle to find an affordable home, Rita was left to ponder, “Should I just go back?”  This is the part of the story often left untold.

Once women and families come into our shelters, our job is not finished until they can secure safe and stable housing.  That is getting harder to do in these economic times.  Last year, our Safehouse served a decreasing number of people – 20 households compared to 41 households the year before.  Difficulty in finding affordable and safe housing has caused longer stays in our shelters.  We have tried to address the issue by increasing our capacity to serve families in long-term housing – 85 households last year compared to 54 households the year before.  But, the issue remains.

What is it going to take, as a community, to help people get beyond harm’s way?  That is a question we need to ask of ourselves, our neighbors, and our community leaders.  During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, write a letter to the editor and talk to a neighbor about striving to end the cycle of abuse and homelessness that affects community members like Rita.

Join us for an awareness event as part of Domestic Violence Awareness Month

In the News: September 19 – 23

Monday, September 19th, 2011

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In the News: August 22 – 26

Monday, August 29th, 2011

The youth of Arlington have a tremendous resource to learn leadership, while Fairfax County wants to use its resources to end homelessness.  More adult children are moving in with their parents, while a supporter wants Congress to move on with reauthorizing the Violence Against Women’s Act.  This is just some of what’s in the news . . .

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Homelessness Makes Me Sick

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

It is only a few weeks before the children of Doorways go back to school. Thanks to our wonderful donors who supported our Back to School Campaign, the children will be equipped with backpacks full of college-ruled paper, three-ringed binders and an umbrella for good measure. However, even with the generosity of our community, the odds are still stacked against these children. They are far more likely to miss school because homelessness and abuse make them sick.

Children experiencing homelessness struggle to succeed in school if they are too sick to fully participate. These children are four times more likely to get sick than most middle-class kids. With a high rate of sick days, over 87% of homeless children are enrolled in school, but only 77% are able to attend regularly, according to the Department of Education.

For children experiencing domestic violence, learning at school may be the furthest thing from their minds. The effects of coming from a violent home can be traumatic and long-lasting. Meaningful relationships, be they with one’s teacher or classmates, may be difficult to form, and focusing on one’s classwork may seem inconsequential compared to the stress of returning home.

The experiences that the children of Doorways experience day in and day out are an opportunity for us to teach the community about the effects of homelessness and abuse on children. There are children in the classrooms every single day trying to find a way to break the cycle of homelessness or abuse they have been experiencing, but they cannot do it alone. Education is a great way to help break that cycle, but the solution will include all of us in the community educating ourselves. As our children go back to school in a few weeks, remind them that the person next to them in class may not be as fortunate as they are.

To support our Back to School Campaign, please, send messages along on Facebook or visit our campaign website here.

Perspective and statistics inspired by The Campaign to End Child Homelessness

In the News: August 15 – August 19

Monday, August 15th, 2011

Arlington County Public Schools are proposing a new sexual misconduct policy while Arlington takes on an initiative to fight 100 Homes for our most vulnerable.  Our area’s homeless are struggling to avoid the heat, while a new iPhone app teaches people what its like to struggle to avoid dating abuse.  And this is just some of what’s in the news . . .

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In the News: July 18th – July 22nd

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

Arlington schools are taking great lengths to ensure their non-English speaking students succeed in the classroom, while our homeless population in America seems to be getting left behind in our health care system. US Senators look over the Violence Against Women Act and low-income families may be pushed out of housing in Northern Virginia’s suburbs. And that’s just some of what’s in the news . . .

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In the News: 6/20 – 6/24

Monday, June 20th, 2011

Some success stories and awards in our area are coupled with the reported rise in nation-wide family homelessness.  White-collar adults are still finding themselves homeless while schoolyard bullies may find themselves to be abusive adults.  And that’s just some of what’s in the news . . .

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Children Should Know About Homelessness

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

Here is my column from last month featured in the Arlington Connection:

Children Should Know About Homelessness

by Caroline Jones

Imagine every day asking a school bus driver to drop you off down the block so other kids don’t know you live in a shelter. Imagine wanting to try out for a school sports team, but knowing that any day you might have to move again. Imagine being afraid that your mother’s abusive partner will find out where you now go to school.

This is the reality for a growing number of children in the suburbs, including several thousand families in Northern Virginia. The Washington Council of Government’s recent Point in Time count of our region’s homeless revealed a devastating fact: Nearly one-third of those homeless are children.

This increasing number of homeless children struggle through their school day — unbeknownst to most of their school mates. (more…)

In the News: 5/2 – 5/6

Monday, May 2nd, 2011

Doorways has some tips to help you talk to your children about homelessness.  Reports of rape increased in Arlington County while the County tries to explain the number of homelessness in Arlington.  The District of Columbia is experiencing a budget shortfall in dealing with domestic violence while renters everywhere are paying a record amount to keep the roof over their head.  And this is just some of what’s in the news . . .

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A Thin Line Between Virtual and Reality

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

With Sexual Violence Awareness Month coming to a close, we wanted to pass along a great resource for you.  Parents often struggle to connect with their kids over sexual abuse issues, because technology is playing a larger part in forwarding that abuse.  Without violating my daughters privacy, how do I control what she texts other people?  How do I make sure my son is being respectful on Facebook if he won’t ‘friend’ me?

We need to prevent sexual violence and digital abuse, but we need a credible source to help spread that message and instigate a conversation with our children.  With that in mind, MTV created A Thin Line Campaign.  There is a thin line between words and wounds; a thin line between virtual and reality.  There is a great repository of videos that target school children.  Please, check it out and help spread the message that there is an important line that we can never cross if we are to stop sexual and digital abuse.

Here is a video about Sexting in America from MTV News: