Posts Tagged ‘HomeStart’

For the Benefit of Brenda

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

Away from the abuse she and her children had endured, Brenda needed a job to support her transition to permanent housing.  After finding an apartment through Doorways’ HomeStart Program, she went to interview after interview.  Despite having marketable work experience and a good education, no job offers were coming her way.  Unfortunately, in addition to her resume Brenda would go into each interview with the haunting voice of her husband in her head.  Phrases like, “stupid,” “idiot,” and “no one in their right mind would ever hire you,” would constantly pulse through her mind.  As a result, each interview would end with Brenda breaking down or becoming agitated.

Fortunately, Brenda benefited from Doorways’ wraparound services. She received counseling and intensive job training to rebuild her self-esteem.  Brenda’s confidence grew so much that by the time of her graduation from our program, she led the entire graduation ceremony which was attended by hundreds of people.

Now, Brenda is the one giving.  She works in her community helping those facing similar challenges.  While the hateful words are not forgotten, Brenda has found new words to describe herself.  She is dedicated, self-sufficient and, most importantly, a proud mother of three children.

Benefit women like Brenda by coming to Doorways’ Spring Benefit.

Homeless Youth Preparing for Back to School

Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Kids returning to the Family Home after school.

Due to circumstances outside of her control, one of my HomeStart clients will have to move within the first few weeks of the school year leaving uncertainty about where her children will be attending school this year. The children will most likely have to start at a new school where they don’t know anyone and I, with our Children’s Services staff, are working to ensure they can start at their new school on the first day. The goal is to help the family find stability and reduce the likelihood that the children will have to transfer after a few weeks once they have moved.

When I delivered the children’s back to school items, a backpack with all of the supplies and a gift card for new clothing donated by our Back to School Sponsors, it was clear that having something tangible was very reassuring for them. Each child pulled out every last item describing them to me. They oooohhhed and aaaahhhed over their backpacks, lunch bags, and water bottles as if they were priceless treasures. Their excitement grew as they organized their pencils, crayons, and notebooks, eagerly talking about the upcoming school year. The security of starting the school year well prepared will help these children to overcome some of the other uncertainties in their life right now.

Thank you to all the donors who contributed to our Back to School drive this year, we greatly appreciate your kindness. Your continued support ensures that each child in our programs (62 today!) will have what they need today on the first day and into the future as they continue towards academic success!

~Kristen Barnes, MSW, HomeStart Client Services Coordinator

The Voices and Faces of Family Homelessness

Wednesday, June 9th, 2010

homeless family imageCheck out this amazing video by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation on family homelessness.  Listen to families talk about their experiences with homelessness.  Experts share information about the state of family homelessness including the need for affordable housing and the unique ways communities, like Arlington, are meeting the need.

“The misconception is that people don’t work. People are homeless because they are lazy, they don’t work, they don’t want to help themselves. Well, there are a lot of us out here who work every day and end up homeless.”  ~Evangeline O’Bannon, Columbus Ohio

These stories mirror those we see at the Family Home and in our HomeStart program.  View the video and let us know what you think.

Housing Alone Cannot End Homelessness

Thursday, May 27th, 2010

Woman hugging daughter imageAs the HomeStart Program Director, I receive referrals and calls from families and individuals who are homeless or are at risk of becoming homeless weekly.  I also sit on the committee that reviews applications each week for the Homelessness Prevention and Rapid Re-Housing Program (HPRP). 

It is extremely disheartening to hear story after story of all the need that is out there and the difficult situations that people are facing that are, for the most part, out of their control.  I hear about a father who has been laid off from his job and struggles to find a new one; a single mother who was injured at work and her employer refuses to pay for her medical care and lost wages; a teen mother who recently aged out of foster care and is struggling to complete a training program while being a mom to two young children; a single father who decided to finish his high school degree, but as a result doesn’t earn enough to pay his rent and utilities; another single mother who did not have enough money to renew her work permit and lost her job,  and the list goes on and on. 

Through Doorways two programs (HomeStart and HPRP), we can assist some of these families with rental subsidies and supportive services, but not all.  There never seems to be enough assistance to go around.  And sometimes, it just does not make sense to place a family in housing because they may not have other resources in place to maintain that housing.  We can help with rent payments, and sometimes even utilities, but that still leaves other unmet needs, such as food, transportation, childcare costs and medical expenses.  The last thing we want to do is set a family up to fail by putting them in a situation that they do not have the means to support and maintain.  For some families, preserving their housing or moving them into housing quickly makes sense, but for others, it would ultimately put them further behind in their process of stabilizing their housing and their lives. 

Sometimes, there are just too many barriers in place that take time to work through, and time in our shelters, where a lot of their basic needs are met, is just what they need to strengthen their foundation.  That way, they can start out in their own housing with a strong base, which increases their chances of long-term stability and success.   

~Julie Faden, HomeStart Program Director