Posts Tagged ‘Virginia’

The George Huguely Trial Continues . . .

Friday, February 10th, 2012

The trial of the murder of Yeardley Love, a UVA student who was found beaten to death in 2010, entered its third day today as the jury watched the videotaped statement the accused George Huguely made to police on the night of her death. Huguely claimed he did not touch her in any way that could have induced death, though her body was found severely bruised, including signs of traumatic injuries to the face and head.

In honor of the deceased, friends and family of Love showed up in pink clothing for jury selection, and in teal for the opening arguments and slate on Thursday.

 

Domestic violence affects millions of people every day. If you or someone you know may be in trouble, please call our 24 hour hotline at (703) 237-0881 or see how to help a friend who may be experiencing abuse by clicking here.

Almost two years after the death of UVA Lacrosse player, Yeardley Love, Huguely Trial begins

Wednesday, February 8th, 2012

In May of 2010, UVa Women’s Lacrosse player, Yeardley Love, was found beaten to death in her Charlottesville apartment. This week her ex-boyfriend, George Huguely, is being tried for her murder. Huguely has pled not guilty to all the charges against him.

The jury selection process further revealed the alarming prevalence of domestic violence within our community, as potential jurors were ruled out due to an emotional tie to an individual effected by domestic violence. Love’s death inspired Glamour Magazine’s “Tell Somebody” Campaign.

We will continue to follow the trial here on our blog, on facebook and on twitter to shine a light on dating violence and advocate that we act as friends to those experiencing abuse.

Learn do to be an advocate for a friend in an unhealthy or violent relationship here.

In the News

Monday, February 6th, 2012

Homelessness

Alexandria, Virginia’s HomeAid is recognized on WUSA9′s Hero Central. This non-profit partners with other organizations to provide the resources necessary to help the homeless rebuild their future.

Virginia’s political leaders met to address the growing problem of homelessness within the commonwealth.

In Fairfax County, officials begin to expand aid for the homeless.

Domestic Violence

Virginia’s new approach to restraining orders causes controversy.
Is the new law too broad?

Two years after her death, George Huguely is put on trial for the murder of U.Va Lacrosse player, Yeardley Love.

New York Senator Charles Schumer pushes for stronger federal domestic violence laws.

No Better Reason to Wake Up at 3am

Thursday, November 3rd, 2011

There is not enough coffee in the world to make me a pleasant person at 3 am.  Yet, on Monday, October 17, I was filled with excitement as I walked into Arlington County’s Department of Human Services building at 3am.  What could possibly drag me out of a peaceful slumber at this ungodly hour?

I wanted to end homelessness in Arlington.

The 100 Homes Campaign is an initiative of the 10-Year Plan to End Homelessness in Arlington, a county-wide effort to coordinate services and leverage community support to give everyone a safe and secure home in our county.  Doorways for Women and Families is a partner in the 10 Year Plan, helping provide a voice for the countless families experiencing homelessness in our community.  The goal for the week of October 17 was to identify the most vulnerable individuals on our streets and in our shelters, so that we could rapidly get them into housing.  The goal for the 100 Homes campaign is to get 100 vulnerable Arlingtonians into 100 homes by July 2013.  A tall order, but luckily we started early in the morning.

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My Breakfast with Virginia Legislators

Wednesday, October 26th, 2011

Everyone has a role to play in not just raising awareness to domestic violence, but ensuring that there are steps taken to end it.  I was fortunate enough to help coordinate a Legislative Breakfast this past Wednesday as part of the Northern Virginia Taskforce of the Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action AllianceDoorways for Women and Families and other NoVA providers invited legislators and political candidates from across Northern Virginia to share some breakfast with us as we discussed issues facing those experiencing domestic abuse.

The conversation was fascinating.

Questions ranged from how DV affects the military community to the state of domestic violence in the current economic crisis.  The legislators listened to service providers tell how domestic violence has impacted their community.  Marielle Filholm of Doorways told the story of one of our clients and the obstacles she overcame to achieve self-sufficiency.  Ultimately, all in attendance agreed on one thing: we need to make domestic violence issues a priority in Richmond and in our community.  Unfortunately, the entire Virginia General Assembly and the entire Arlington community could not fit in that room.

The conversation should not stop once the coffee runs out and the bagels are boxed up.  While Domestic Violence Awareness Month occurs for 31 days a year, engaging our community in a dialogue about domestic violence needs to be an ongoing event.

Next time you’re having your morning coffee with friends, engage them in this conversation.  It may take more than one breakfast to end domestic violence, but it’s a great place to start.

Join us for our last event of Domestic Violence Awareness Month this Saturday at our Howl-O-Ween Dog Walk for the Homeless.  Register here.

 

Wyatt Schroeder

Communication and Outreach Coordinator

In the News: September 19 – 23

Monday, September 19th, 2011

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In the News: August 15 – August 19

Monday, August 15th, 2011

Arlington County Public Schools are proposing a new sexual misconduct policy while Arlington takes on an initiative to fight 100 Homes for our most vulnerable.  Our area’s homeless are struggling to avoid the heat, while a new iPhone app teaches people what its like to struggle to avoid dating abuse.  And this is just some of what’s in the news . . .

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In the News: July 25th – July 29th

Monday, July 25th, 2011

It is recommended that contraception and domestic violence screening should be included in health care plans, while the Department of Labor supplies guidelines for services benefiting female veterans who may become homeless. Family violence reports are increasing within the military community and one L.A. artist is raising homelessness awareness through his work. But that’s just some of what’s in the news…

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Around the Nation are Dating Partners Protected?

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

Though Virginia may be making great strides against dating abuse, laws in each state differ on helping those suffering from dating abuse nationwide.

Break The Cycle, the nation’s leading dating abuse prevention foundation, has published report cards representing how helpful each state is in assisting those suffering from dating abuse and how far each still needs to go. In 2010 (the most recent report), only six states – CA, IL, NH, OK, RI, and WA – and the District of Columbia received A’s indicating that they have taken leaps and bounds to ease the legal process for dating abuse victims. New Hampshire scored particularly high on its report card because it is the only state that allows minors of all ages to file for protective orders without parental participation.

Many state laws have changed since the last report, but some states are still struggling to provide legal protection to dating partners. Kentucky and Utah are among five states that still do not allow victims of dating abuse to file for protective orders at all.  Just as Virginia did, we encourage those states to offer legal protection to those experiencing dating abuse.

State by state we are expanding our abuse laws to be representative of spousal and dating partners. There are now 45 states and the District of Columbia that allow dating abuse victims to receive legal protection; Virginia being the newest addition. There are however some states that are in the process of enacting legislation that will allow their unheard voices the chance to be protected.

Another positive change that many states are making is to start ensuring that there is dating abuse education in their school systems to help prevent violence. They want to teach students to understand what dating abuse looks like and encourage them to stop it from happening to their peers as well as prevent it from happening to themselves.

As we move closer and closer to creating more options for those in abusive relationships, we look forward to a day when all states offer legal protection to dating partners.

New Law Expands Access to Protection and Condemns Abuse

Friday, July 1st, 2011

by Jamie Friedman, Court Advocacy Program Coordinator and Corinne Stuart, Court Advocacy Program Intern

After being attacked and beaten by her ex-boyfriend the night prior, Tina decided to seek legal protection from her ex-boyfriend to prevent him from hurting her again in the future. Sadly, Tina’s only remedy and legal recourse would be to call the police and have her partner arrested. But as we can all imagine, this is not always an ideal option. Under Virginia law, prior to July 1, 2011 Tina would not qualify to file for a Protective Order because her relationship did not meet Virginia’s definition of a “family or household member.”  Like many other survivors of dating violence, Tina would be turned away from the court system, still fearful as a result of her inability to access civil protection under the law.

Thankfully, as of July 1, 2011, recent legislation allows dating violence survivors, like Tina, to file for Protective Orders in General District Court.  Legislation has now changed to allow any person experiencing unwanted physical contact, including pushing, hitting, kicking or strangling, among other acts of violence, to file for civil protection in the General District Court, regardless of their relationship.  Additionally, any person receiving threats of unwanted physical contact will also be eligible to file in General District Court for a Protective Order.  This legislation is a much needed addition to the Civil Judicial System, particularly with the recent tragedy of Yeardley Love, a victim of dating violence, who was murdered in Charlottesville, Virginia by her boyfriend.

Not only does this new legislation expand access to civil protection for those in abusive dating relationships, but it also officially condemns abuse, in all situations, regardless of the relationship between the parties.  This is a large step in the right direction to ending all acts of violence and abuse in Virginia and on a national scale as well.

Doorways for Women and Families continues to serve all survivors of Intimate Partner Violence, offering resources to help survivors leave abusive partners and choose healthy relationships in moving forward. The Court Advocacy Program comprises one component of the support structure that Doorways provides for survivors of Intimate Partner Violence.  Court Advocates are available in the Arlington Courthouse to discuss eligibility for Protective Orders, complete Protective Order paperwork, provide court accompaniment, and offer safety planning and referrals to further community services.

Court Advocacy services are available by calling (703) 244-5165 or (571) 289-2439, or by walking in and speaking with a Court Advocate in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Intake Office located on the fourth floor in the Arlington Courthouse.